Noisy Growth, Missed Moments, and Why It Still Counts


Hey you,

This week was a full-blown rollercoaster of toddler triumphs, road trip chaos, family magic, and a pool-day detox we didn’t know we needed.

There were high-fives that almost happened, coughs that overstayed their welcome, sugar-induced regret, and a homemade DEKA style workout that reminded me—I can still crush it when I make space to move.

Let’s reset, shall we?


One Thing to Think About This Week

Confidence doesn’t always look loud. Sometimes it’s quiet courage in disguise.

Watching Ledger step into independence this week—from trying every station at gymnastics to handling a new environment with curiosity and trust—made me realize how gently growth can show up.

He cried. He fell. He got back up.

Because growth is happening anyway.

Sometimes confidence is just trying again.

Sometimes growth is just sitting in the room.

Celebrate Your Wins

  • 🏋️‍♀️ Did a full DEKA-style workout in a garage gym with limited equipment
  • 🎙 Rearranged my entire office to make it more peaceful, functional, and guest-friendly for upcoming podcasts.
  • 💻 Managed working from home with a toddler… again. (Was it chaos? Yes. Did we survive? Also yes.)


Productivity Hack of the Week

Use what you’ve got. Get what you need.

No gym? No problem. I was on vacation, away from my usual setup, but still wanted to move my body and feel good. So I grabbed what was available and did the most 2025 thing possible: I opened ChatGPT and said,

“Hey, make me a DEKA-style workout using this gear. I want to sweat in 30 minutes.”

And it delivered. Crushed it. All the sweat.

Sometimes we overthink how much we need before we start. But progress? Progress is built with what’s already in reach.

What I’m Into This Week

  • Workout Playlist: Big Bootie Mix by Two Friends – the perfect mix of fun, nostalgia, and energy boosts.
  • Tech/App: TrustedHousesitters – the lowkey best-kept travel hack if you have pets.
  • Electrolytes: Ultima has been my all time fave electrolyte powder.


Life Snapshot

  • Personal Win: I leaned all the way into family time this week—no guilt, no pressure to “get things done,” (except this newsletter of course) just presence. Watching Ledger play, laugh, swim, and light up around loved ones reminded me that this is the good stuff. Sometimes the real win is simply soaking it in.
  • Family Moments: Being surrounded by family this week, letting Ledger play with cousins, swim in the pool, and light up every room with giggles—this is what holidays are about. Watching Madison’s younger cousins now love on our son the way she once cared for them? Full circle magic.
  • Real-Life Relatability: They had a massive firework show at Madison’s mom’s house but Ledger was ready for bed rightttt as the show started so we missed it.

One Last Thing

We talk a lot about presence… but,

Presence isn’t always peaceful. Sometimes it’s noisy, sticky, sweaty, frustrating, hilarious, and so worth it.

It’s high-fiving your toddler in a circle and them looking away because they’re shy.

It’s workouts in a hot garage with minimal equipment.

It’s missing the fireworks but catching the giggles.

That’s presence too.


Fun P.S.

Ledger hit the neighbor’s trampoline this week and ran across it like the bionic man—arms flailing, full speed, pure joy.

His cousin “bounced” with him, all calm and careful, while Ledger lit up like it was the best moment of his life.

Total glow-up. Total core memory.

This week reminded me: progress isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s just being present, laughing with family, or watching your kid go full superhero on a trampoline.

You’re doing better than you think.

If this made you smile, send it to a friend—or hit reply and tell me your favorite moment this week. I’d love to hear it (seriously, I would).


Talk soon,

Trina

P.P.S. Want more? You can view all Newsletter posts here. Interested what my 1:1 coaching looks like? Check out my website transformwithtrina.com

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